I can totally relate to that. When I was looking into getting a second opinion for my bone graft, I initially thought I'd just go with the surgeon who had the most impressive credentials. But after meeting with him, something just didn't click. He seemed rushed, and I felt like another number on his schedule. So I decided to see someone else, less flashy resume but way more approachable. Honestly, the difference was night and day. She took her time explaining things, listened to my concerns, and made me feel genuinely cared for. That comfort level really eased my anxiety about the whole procedure.
And you're right about stress affecting healing—my recovery ended up smoother than expected, probably because I wasn't constantly worried or second-guessing myself. Confidence in your surgeon seems to translate into confidence in your own body's ability to heal. It's funny how much our mindset can influence physical recovery...
Totally makes sense to me. Credentials are great, but bedside manner counts for a lot—especially when you're nervous about surgery. I've seen it plenty with dental work too. Had veneers done a few years back, and the dentist I chose wasn't the fanciest in town but took the time to walk me through every step. Feeling heard and understood really helps ease anxiety, and less anxiety usually means better healing... Glad you trusted your gut on this one.
I completely agree about bedside manner being crucial. When I had my dental implants done a couple of years ago, I initially consulted with a highly recommended specialist—great credentials, impressive office—but something felt off. He seemed rushed and didn't really address my concerns. Ended up going with another dentist who patiently explained everything, answered all my questions, and genuinely seemed to care about my comfort. Made a huge difference in how calm I felt going into the procedure, and recovery went smoothly too... Trusting your instincts definitely pays off.
Totally get what you're saying about instincts. Credentials are important, sure, but feeling comfortable and heard makes a huge difference in how smoothly things go. Glad you trusted your gut—sounds like it really paid off.
"feeling comfortable and heard makes a huge difference in how smoothly things go."
Couldn't agree more. Did you find that docs who took extra time to explain things clearly were pricier, or was it pretty even across the board? I'm trying to balance comfort with budget...tricky stuff.
