Totally makes sense to me. Surgery, especially something like a bone graft, can be pretty nerve-wracking already. Having someone who actually takes the time to explain what's happening step-by-step and answer questions calmly can really ease anxiety. I've noticed that when patients feel comfortable asking questions, they tend to have better outcomes overall—probably because they're less stressed and more prepared mentally.
Of course, technical skill is crucial, but it's not the only factor. A surgeon who communicates clearly and empathetically can help you understand exactly what to expect before, during, and after the procedure. That kind of clarity often leads to better compliance with post-op instructions too, which directly impacts healing.
Glad you trusted your instincts and found someone who made you feel at ease. Sometimes it's worth taking that extra step to find the right fit...
I had a similar experience when I needed a bone graft before my dental implant. The first surgeon I saw was technically great, but he rushed through explanations and seemed annoyed by my questions. Decided to get a second opinion, and the difference was night and day—this doc actually sat down, sketched out the procedure, and even walked me through potential complications without sugarcoating. Honestly, just knowing exactly what to expect made recovery way less stressful. Technical skill matters, sure, but bedside manner counts for a lot too...
"Honestly, just knowing exactly what to expect made recovery way less stressful."
Couldn't agree more—I’m gearing up for my first bone graft soon, and just reading this thread helps ease my anxiety a bit. Definitely prioritizing a surgeon who’s patient enough to handle all my nervous questions...
That's great you're finding some reassurance here—makes such a difference when you have a clear idea of what's coming. Curious though, have you thought about asking your surgeon how they typically handle post-op communication? I remember when I had my graft done, I didn't think to ask beforehand, and ended up feeling kinda awkward calling the office with random questions afterward. Luckily, my surgeon was super chill and didn't mind, but I know some docs can be less approachable once the surgery is over. Might be worth checking upfront how accessible they'll be if you have concerns pop up during recovery...
"Might be worth checking upfront how accessible they'll be if you have concerns pop up during recovery..."
This is such a good point—I hadn't even thought about that aspect until recently. I'm currently looking into a second opinion because my first surgeon seemed kinda rushed and didn't really explain much about post-op care. Honestly, it's been stressing me out a bit. Glad your surgeon was chill about questions afterward; that's exactly the kind of reassurance I'd want too. Hope everything goes smoothly for you!