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Finding the right doc for bone graft surgery—recent story got me thinking

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nwalker12
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My ortho tried showing me one of those 3D models before getting braces and honestly...it just made me realize how weirdly shaped my teeth were, lol. But yeah, hearing the doc calmly explain each step was way more reassuring for me. Guess it depends on whether you're a visual learner or just prefer someone chill talking you through it. Either way beats WebMD panic at 2am.

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"Either way beats WebMD panic at 2am."

Haha, seriously, WebMD at night is a rabbit hole you never wanna go down. I totally agree about the visual models though—sometimes seeing your teeth in full 3D glory is just...too much information. Personally, I prefer docs who can joke around a bit and keep things chill. Had a dentist once who cracked dad jokes mid-procedure—sounds annoying, but weirdly comforting when you're nervous. Guess finding someone who matches your vibe makes all the difference.

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Totally get the appeal of humor in the chair—I've been known to drop a few corny jokes myself during procedures. It's funny how a bit of laughter can ease tension and make the whole experience smoother for everyone. But yeah, those 3D models can be overwhelming at first glance. Usually, I try to gauge how much detail a patient actually wants...some folks love seeing every little detail, others prefer the "less is more" approach. Finding that balance is key.

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Glad to hear you take the time to gauge comfort levels—wish more docs did that. As someone who's pretty anxious about my upcoming bone graft, do you think it's okay if I ask my surgeon upfront to keep things simple? Don't wanna seem rude or anything...

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Totally understandable to feel anxious about that—bone grafts can sound pretty intimidating at first. Honestly, I think it's completely reasonable (and even helpful) to let your surgeon know upfront that you'd prefer things explained simply. Most surgeons I've worked with actually appreciate when patients are clear about their comfort levels and communication preferences. It helps them tailor their approach and makes the whole experience smoother for everyone involved.

I remember a patient once who was super nervous about a similar procedure. She straight-up told the surgeon, "Doc, pretend I'm five years old and explain it to me like that." We all laughed, but it genuinely helped her relax, and the surgeon knew exactly how to approach the conversation from there on out. So yeah, don't worry about seeming rude or anything—you're just advocating for yourself, which is always a good thing.

Also, keep in mind that surgeons deal with anxious patients all the time. It's part of their job to make sure you're comfortable and informed. If anything, they'll probably be relieved you're being upfront rather than silently stressing out. And hey, if they do seem annoyed by a simple request like that...maybe that's a sign they're not the right fit anyway?

Either way, good luck with your procedure—I'm sure you'll do great.

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