sometimes I feel like dentists forget just how overwhelming it all is for us.
This is so true, especially when you’re there with your kid who’s already nervous. I always wonder, do other parents get clear instructions on aftercare? Half the time I’m asking the assistant what the dentist just said because I missed it trying to keep my daughter calm. I feel like pain management is important, but long-term care questions matter even more when it’s your kid’s teeth. Anyone else ever get home and realize you forgot to ask something big?
I totally get where you’re coming from. I’ve left appointments with my son and realized I forgot to ask about half the things I meant to, especially when he’s upset or squirmy. Pain management always feels urgent in the moment, but then at home I start worrying about brushing around fillings or what snacks are okay. It’s just a lot to juggle. Honestly, I’ve started writing questions down on my phone so I don’t forget... but even then, sometimes it all goes out the window if he’s having a rough day.
Pain management always feels urgent in the moment, but then at home I start worrying about brushing around fillings or what snacks are okay.
I get that pain is front and center when you’re actually at the dentist, but honestly, long-term stuff has saved me a lot of money and stress down the road. I used to focus only on getting my kid comfortable, but then we’d end up back for more work because I didn’t ask about daily care or foods. It’s tough when they’re fussy, but I try to squeeze in at least one question about prevention—even if it means emailing later. That way I’m not just dealing with emergencies, which can really add up.
I hear you—pain feels urgent, but honestly, the questions about daily care end up mattering more in the long run. I used to just focus on pain relief for my daughter, but after a couple repeat fillings, I realized prevention is way cheaper and less stressful. Now I always ask about brushing and snacks, even if it feels awkward. It’s worth it.
That makes a lot of sense. I used to think pain was the main thing to worry about, but after a couple of surprise cavities myself, I get why you focus on the daily stuff now. It’s kind of wild how much difference brushing and snacks can make... I still feel weird asking about flossing, but you’re right, it’s worth pushing through the awkwardness. Thanks for sharing—makes me feel better about being a little over-the-top with questions at the dentist.
