Sometimes you need that little reality check, even if it feels a bit harsh in the moment.
I totally relate to this. The first time my ortho called out my gum numbers, I felt like I’d totally failed at basic hygiene. But honestly, it was that awkward moment that got me to take flossing seriously. Now, every time I go in, I still get nervous, but it’s less about embarrassment and more about wanting to see progress. It’s weird how something so small can motivate you, right?
That’s so familiar. My kid had their first real gum check last year, and I could see the nerves kick in as soon as the numbers started getting called out. It’s interesting—once we got home, they were way more motivated to brush and floss, but not because I nagged, just because they wanted a better “score” next time. I do think it can feel a bit harsh at first, but seeing small improvements each visit really does help. Still, I wish they explained what those numbers meant a bit more clearly... sometimes it just sounds scarier than it is.
That’s interesting, because honestly, I kinda wish they *didn’t* use the numbers out loud at all. My youngest got super freaked out just hearing “four… three… two…” like it was a countdown to doom. I get that it helps some kids, but for us, it made the nerves worse. Maybe they could just say “all good” or “needs a little work” instead?
I totally get why hearing the numbers would freak a kid out...honestly, I got anxious myself when they started calling out “three… four…” during my first check. Felt like I was on some weird game show, except the prize was gum trouble. But weirdly, knowing the numbers actually helped me—like, I could ask what they meant after and it wasn’t this big mystery. Still, I wish they’d explain up front what the numbers mean instead of just rattling them off. Maybe that would take the edge off for people like us?
