I get what you're saying about being cautious. I've had my fair share of dental dramas too, and honestly, it's made me a lot more proactive about checkups and treatments. A couple of years ago, I had this tooth that my dentist kept saying was "fine, just keep an eye on it." Well, I did exactly that—kept an eye on it and waited. Then one weekend, out of nowhere, the pain hit like a freight train. Turns out the tooth cracked deep inside and I ended up needing an emergency extraction and eventually an implant... talk about a nightmare scenario.
Ever since then, I've been pretty firm about getting things addressed sooner rather than later. Sure, overtreatment can be frustrating—no one wants unnecessary procedures or costs—but when it comes to teeth, waiting often makes things worse in my experience. The anxiety alone from constantly wondering if something borderline is going to blow up into a major issue isn't worth it for me.
But I do agree second opinions can help clarify things when you're unsure. I've done that before myself—not because I didn't trust my dentist exactly, but just to get another perspective. Funny enough, sometimes the second dentist is even more cautious than the first one! At least then you feel more confident making a decision either way.
In the end, everyone's comfort level with risk varies. But for me personally, after that painful (and expensive) lesson learned the hard way... I'm definitely team 'better safe than sorry.'
"Sure, overtreatment can be frustrating—no one wants unnecessary procedures or costs—but when it comes to teeth, waiting often makes things worse in my experience."
Yeah, I totally relate to this. I used to be pretty relaxed about dental checkups until a similar thing happened to me. Had a tooth that was "borderline" for ages, and I figured I'd just wait and see. Big mistake. Ended up needing a root canal, crown—the whole expensive package. Ever since then, I've been way more proactive about addressing issues early.
That said, I've also learned that dentists vary hugely in their approach. Some are super conservative and others jump straight into treatment mode at the first hint of trouble. It can be tricky figuring out the sweet spot between caution and overtreatment.
Curious if anyone else has noticed this big difference between dentists? How do you decide when it's worth getting another opinion versus trusting your regular dentist's judgment?
