Totally get where you're coming from. When I first looked into veneers, the dentist I saw was kinda pushy about the whole "perfect smile" thing too, and it made me feel uneasy. Ended up going with Invisalign instead—took longer than expected, but honestly, knowing I wasn't permanently changing my teeth was a huge relief. Veneers can look amazing, but it's definitely worth taking your time to decide what's right for you... no rush.
I totally see your point about Invisalign being less permanent and all, but honestly, veneers aren't always as drastic as people think. My sister got veneers a couple years ago—she was super nervous at first too—but her dentist was really chill and made sure they looked natural, not overly perfect or fake. She's been super happy with them ever since. Definitely agree it's important to take your time deciding though... everyone's comfort level is different.
Yeah, veneers can definitely look super natural if they're done right. I've had patients who were hesitant at first but ended up loving the results. Just gotta find a dentist who really listens and understands the look you're going for... makes all the difference.
We went through this with my daughter last year. She was leaning towards veneers because she wanted quick results, but our dentist recommended Invisalign first since her teeth were healthy and just slightly misaligned. Honestly, I'm glad we listened—after about a year, her smile looks great, and she didn't have to permanently alter her teeth. Veneers can definitely look amazing, but they're also a bigger commitment. I'd say start by talking through all the pros and cons with your dentist before deciding...worked well for us.