The toothbrush swap is actually pretty clever from a dental standpoint—pacifiers can definitely affect tooth alignment and jaw growth if kiddos hold onto them too long. We tried the trimming method too, but my son was NOT fooled. He gave me this look like, "Mom, nice try." 😂 Eventually, we went cold turkey, and honestly, the anticipation was worse than reality. First couple nights were rough (okay, really rough), but after about night three, he just accepted it.
One thing I've noticed with my patients is that every kid is different—some respond great to gradual weaning, others do better with something symbolic like your fairy idea. The important part is sticking with whatever method you choose and not giving in when they get upset (easier said than done, I know...). Sounds like you all handled it really thoughtfully. Parenting wins deserve celebrating!
We did something similar with our daughter, but instead of trimming or swapping, we went the "binky fairy" route. Explained to her step-by-step that the fairy would come take her pacifiers to give to younger babies who needed them, and leave a small gift behind. First night was definitely rough, lots of tears and bargaining attempts...but by night two she seemed to get it. Agree that consistency is key—once you commit, gotta stick with it even when it's tough. Glad you found something that worked for your family.
We tried the fairy thing too, but ours was a total skeptic...she kept giving us side-eye like, "Really, a fairy wants my drooly binkies?" 😂 Eventually, we just went cold turkey. Couple rough nights, but you're spot on about consistency—it really does pay off.
