- Same here, I always think “maybe this’ll just go away” if I brush enough.
- My sweet tooth is the real enemy though…gummies and soda get me every time.
- Anyone else try those fluoride rinses? Not sure if they’re helping or just taste weird.
- I’m still on the fence about fillings unless it actually hurts.
I've been trying to wait and see but the pain got so bad. Both dentists agree that I have lots of cavities that need work now and can't wait unfortunately. Super worried about getting it all done, especially the root canals and caps.
I’m right there with you—when I needed a couple root canals last year, the cost freaked me out more than the pain. Did your dentist talk about payment plans or insurance at all? I had to ask around for cheaper options. How are you handling the financial side?
@bella_green Thankfully I have good insurance but it's still expensive as heck to have all the work done!!
Insurance helps, but it’s wild how much is still out of pocket. I’ve had crowns and fillings over the years—even with coverage, those “extras” add up fast. Sometimes I wonder if the costs really match the actual work being done, but what can you do? At least you’re getting it taken care of. Ignoring it just leads to root canals or worse down the line… Trust me, I learned that the hard way. Hang in there—it’s frustrating, but your future self will thank you for sorting it now.
Totally understandable to be scared — that’s a lot to hear at once, especially at 28. But yes, you can be okay, even if it doesn’t feel like it right now.
A few important things to keep in mind:
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Cavities don’t mean you’re “doomed.” They mean decay happened during a period when dental care and/or prevention slipped (which happens to a lot of people). Once the decay is treated and habits are stabilized, things often calm down dramatically.
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Root canals are not the end of the road. They’re actually tooth-saving procedures. Teeth that have had root canals can last decades with proper crowns and care.
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Dentistry is about stopping progression. Right now you’re seeing the result of the last few years, not a prediction of the next 40. Once the active decay is addressed and you’re back on regular cleanings, most people don’t keep getting cavities at the same rate.
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Interproximal and molar decay is extremely common, especially if flossing wasn’t consistent or if there’s dry mouth, grinding, or diet factors. It doesn’t mean your enamel is “bad forever.”
What matters most now:
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You’ve already gotten two opinions (good move).
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You’re catching this in your 20s, not after decades of neglect.
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You can work with your dentist on prevention: fluoride, prescription toothpaste, cleanings every 3–4 months at first, flossing aids, maybe diet tweaks.
Many people have a “rough chapter” with their teeth and then go on to have stable, healthy mouths for the rest of their lives. This isn’t a moral failing or a life sentence — it’s a problem with solutions.
