My dad recently retired and he's been complaining about tooth sensitivity and gums being sore more often. He never had issues before, but now brushing seems to bother him. I suggested switching toothpaste or maybe a softer brush, but he's stubborn (you know how dads can be, lol). Wondering if this is common as people age or if it's something we should get checked out? Curious if anyone's parents or grandparents went through something similar...
"Wondering if this is common as people age or if it's something we should get checked out?"
It's actually pretty common—our gums naturally recede a bit as we age, exposing more sensitive areas. Switching to a softer brush or sensitive toothpaste usually helps. Has he had a dental check-up recently to rule out gum disease?
My son actually had something similar happen recently, and he's still pretty young. Our dentist mentioned that even younger people can experience gum sensitivity or recession if they're brushing too hard or using a toothbrush that's too firm. We switched him to a softer brush and gentle toothpaste, and it really seemed to help. So yeah, definitely common as we age, but apparently it can happen earlier too...might be worth checking out just for peace of mind?
My daughter went through something similar when she was around 12 or 13. She started complaining about her gums feeling sore and sensitive, and we couldn't figure out why at first. Turns out she was brushing way too aggressively—like she thought harder brushing meant cleaner teeth. Our dentist explained that it's actually pretty common, even among younger people, and recommended switching to a softer brush and showing her how to brush gently in small circles instead of scrubbing back and forth.
It took a little while for her to get used to the new technique, but it made a huge difference. Her gums stopped hurting, and the dentist said they looked much healthier at her next check-up. I was honestly surprised because I'd always thought gum recession was something that only older adults had to worry about. But apparently, habits formed early can really impact oral health down the road...so it's great you're addressing it now rather than later.
I was honestly surprised because I'd always thought gum recession was something that only older adults had to worry about.
Your daughter's experience makes a lot of sense—brushing too hard can definitely cause gum recession and sensitivity at any age. Older adults often notice it more because gums naturally recede a bit over time, exposing sensitive areas. Switching to softer brushes and gentle brushing techniques usually helps quite a bit.
