Totally get what you mean about the jackhammer thing, haha... I had the same worry at first. From my experience, Philips Sonicare brushes tend to feel gentler because they use sonic vibrations rather than the oscillating-rotating action of Oral-B. Plus, most Sonicare models have adjustable intensity settings, so you can start off super gentle and gradually increase as your gums get used to it. Might be worth checking out a mid-range model—no need to go for the fanciest one right away.
Good points on the Sonicare brushes. Have you found the mid-range models hold up well over time? I've been hesitant to spend much since I'm not sure I'll like electric long-term, but your mention of adjustable settings makes me reconsider. My gums are pretty sensitive, so gentle would definitely be a plus. Maybe it's worth a shot if it's not too pricey...
"My gums are pretty sensitive, so gentle would definitely be a plus."
Totally get where you're coming from with sensitive gums...my son had similar issues, and the adjustable settings really helped him ease into using electric. Have you looked into replacement brush head costs yet? That's something I overlooked initially.
Sensitive gums can be tricky—I remember when I first switched to electric, it felt a bit too intense at first. Starting with the lowest setting helped tons, and now my gums actually feel healthier. Maybe give yourself some time to adjust slowly...could make a big difference.
Totally get your point about adjusting slowly, but honestly, electric brushes might just not suit everyone. My dad tried one for months—even on the gentlest setting—and it still irritated his gums. He switched back to a soft-bristle manual and found it simpler to control pressure himself. Sometimes sensitive gums need a more personalized touch than electric brushes allow. Maybe sticking with manual isn't so bad, especially if you're older and set in your ways... comfort matters too.