Would you freak out if your stitches took longer to dissolve?

I totally get the paranoia - after mine, I kept checking the stitches in the mirror like every few hours.

“Would you call the dentist, or just wait it out?”

Stitch paranoia is so real. I remember after getting my wisdom teeth out, I was convinced something was wrong because the stitches looked… weird? Like one side dissolved way faster than the other, and I kept poking at them with my tongue (which, in hindsight, probably didn’t help anything). Ended up calling my dentist after about 10 days because I thought for sure they should be gone by then. They just laughed and told me some can take over three weeks to fully dissolve, especially if your mouth runs a little dry or you’re not eating much on that side.

Honestly, I see people worry about this all the time - sometimes it’s just your body doing its thing at its own pace. But yeah, if something feels off or you get that nagging “what if,” there’s no harm in calling. Dentists are used to it. I’d rather someone ask than sit around stressing. And for what it’s worth, mine finally dissolved around day 18 and nothing bad happened… just a lot of unnecessary mirror-checking.

I totally get where you’re coming from - stitches in your mouth just feel weird, and it’s hard not to obsess over them. When I had my molars out, I was convinced something was off because one stitch started to unravel around day 7, but the others hung on for what felt like ages. I kept thinking, “Did I mess something up?” Every time I ate, I’d check in the mirror, convinced I’d see some disaster.

Honestly, I think a lot of us overthink it. The dissolving timeline is all over the place. My dentist said as long as there’s no pain, swelling, or funky smell, it’s probably fine. Still, I called anyway - better safe than sorry. They were super chill about it. Looking back, I wish I’d worried less and just let my body do its thing. But yeah, that urge to poke at them with your tongue? Impossible to resist.

I totally get where you’re coming from - stitches in your mouth just feel weird, and it’s hard not to obsess over them. When I had my molars out, I was convinced something was off because one s...

Title: Would you freak out if your stitches took longer to dissolve?

I appreciate hearing other people have had the same hyper-focus on those stitches. I’ve read that the type of suture material can really affect how long it takes - some are designed to dissolve in a week, others take a month or more. Mine were supposed to be “fast-dissolving” but at day 16, I could still feel them catching on my toothbrush. It’s hard not to wonder if something’s wrong, especially when you’re constantly aware of that weird sensation every time you eat or talk.

I ended up calling my dentist too, mostly for peace of mind. They said unless there’s pain, bleeding, or signs of infection, it’s usually just a matter of waiting. Still, I get anxious about food particles getting stuck and causing issues. I’ve been using a water flosser (on low pressure) just to feel like I’m doing something proactive, though I’m not sure if that actually helps or just makes me feel better.

It’s kind of wild how much mental energy goes into such a small thing in your mouth.

Yeah, I’ve definitely been there - those stitches can feel way more noticeable than you’d expect. After my wisdom teeth came out, mine stuck around for nearly three weeks, even though the dentist said they’d be gone in ten days. Honestly, it drove me a little nuts. I kept poking at them with my tongue and worrying they’d never dissolve. The dentist told me not to stress unless there was pain or swelling, but it’s tough not to overthink every weird feeling in your mouth. The water flosser idea sounds smart, though... I just stuck to gentle saltwater rinses and soft foods until things finally sorted themselves out.

That feeling of “are these things ever going to disappear?” is so relatable. You’re definitely not alone in poking at them constantly - most people do, even if they won’t admit it. It’s weird how something so tiny can take up so much mental space, right? I’ve seen a lot of folks get anxious when stitches don’t dissolve on schedule, but honestly, the ten-day estimate is just that - an estimate. Sometimes it’s two weeks, sometimes even longer.

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I kept poking at them with my tongue and worrying they’d never dissolve. The dentist told me not to stress unless there was pain or swelling, but it’s tough not to overthink every weird feeling in your mouth.

Why do you think it’s so hard for us not to stress about stuff like this? Is it just the unfamiliar feeling, or does it make you worry something’s wrong? I’m always curious because nearly everyone seems to have this reaction, but rarely do the stitches actually cause trouble.

Saltwater rinses are a classic - gentle and effective. Have you ever tried just ignoring the stitches for a day or two? I know it’s easier said than done, but sometimes the less attention you give them, the faster they seem to go away (or at least, the less you notice them). On the other hand, I’ve seen people use water flossers and sometimes that can irritate the area if you’re not careful. Did you ever feel tempted to pull at them or ask the dentist to snip them out early? I get that question all the time.

I wonder if part of the anxiety comes from not being able to see what’s going on back there. If your arm had a dissolvable stitch, you’d probably check it in the mirror and move on. But with your mouth, everything just feels… off.

Anyway, sounds like you handled it pretty well - soft foods and patience are underrated. Do you feel like if you had to go through it again, you’d be less stressed? Or does the memory still make your mouth itch?

I totally get what you mean about not being able to see what’s happening in your mouth. When I had my wisdom teeth out, I was convinced the stitches were stuck forever. I kept thinking, “If these things don’t dissolve, am I going to have to pay for another visit?” That’s honestly where my mind went first - just the stress of another bill. The unfamiliar feeling definitely didn’t help, but the thought of extra costs made me overthink every weird twinge.

Ignoring them for a day or two was tough, but once I distracted myself with work or Netflix, I noticed them less. Saltwater rinses were my go-to since they’re cheap and easy. I never tried pulling at them (the idea freaked me out), but I did call the office just to double-check if it was normal for them to linger.

If I had to do it again, I think knowing what to expect would make it less stressful - at least from a budget perspective. Did anyone else worry more about unexpected costs than the stitches themselves? Or is that just me being overly cautious with money?

I’m right there with you on the money worries. When I had my lower molar pulled a few years back, the dentist said, “Don’t worry, the stitches will dissolve in a week or so.” Well, two weeks later, I was still poking at them with my tongue and panicking that something was wrong. My first thought wasn’t even about infection or pain - it was, “How much is it going to cost if I have to go back?” Dental bills just mess with my head, especially since insurance never seems to cover everything.

I remember calling the office and feeling silly asking if it was normal for stitches to hang around. They told me not to stress, but honestly, I still checked every morning. It’s funny how the anxiety over a possible extra charge can outweigh the actual discomfort. Does anyone else get nervous about calling their dentist just because of the potential for another bill? Or is that just me being a little too cautious?

Totally get what you mean - calling the dentist always makes me nervous, and it’s almost never about the actual teeth. It’s the “what if they want to see me again and charge for it?” I’ve spent way too much time googling “stitches won’t dissolve” just to avoid a possible bill. You’re definitely not alone.

That’s exactly what I keep thinking about - like, if the stitches don’t dissolve “on schedule,” do they make you come back in and pay for another visit? I’m always worried they’ll say it’s normal but then still want to check it just in case. Did anyone ever just leave them alone and they eventually went away, or is that risky?

Did anyone ever just leave them alone and they eventually went away, or is that risky?

I had dissolvable stitches after a minor hand surgery, and they definitely took longer than the doctor said. I left them alone, and they did dissolve, but it was almost two weeks late. I kept obsessively checking them - couldn’t help it. It felt weird but not painful, so I didn’t go back in. In hindsight, probably a little risky since I didn’t know if there was an infection or not, but everything healed fine.

I do wonder if some people’s bodies just break them down slower? Like maybe diet or even skin type affects it. I get the worry about being charged for another visit though… healthcare billing is wild sometimes.

I left them alone, and they did dissolve, but it was almost two weeks late. I kept obsessively checking them - couldn’t help it.

That sounds so familiar. I had dissolvable stitches after an oral surgery and they lingered way longer than the oral surgeon predicted. I’d catch myself poking at them with my tongue all day, convinced something was wrong, but my gum looked fine - no swelling or weird color. It’s tough not to worry, especially when you’re told they’ll be gone in a week and then…they’re just still there.

I totally get your point about different bodies breaking them down at their own pace. I read somewhere that saliva can speed things up in the mouth, but even then, mine took their sweet time. The temptation to go back in is real, but like you said, healthcare costs make you second-guess if it’s even worth it unless there’s real pain or signs of infection.

Honestly, if it’s not red or oozing and you feel okay otherwise, waiting it out seems pretty normal. But yeah, the anxiety? That’s probably universal.

The temptation to go back in is real, but like you said, healthcare costs make you second-guess if it’s even worth it unless there’s real pain or signs of infection.

I get what you mean about the cost, but honestly, I’d rather pay for a quick check than stress for weeks. I know money’s tight (trust me, I’ve put off stuff before), but sometimes peace of mind is worth it - especially if something feels off. I guess for me, the anxiety just eats up too much brain space otherwise.

I totally get the anxiety part. When I had my wisdom teeth out, the stitches were supposed to dissolve in a week, but two weeks later they were still hanging on. Every day I’d poke at them with my tongue and wonder if I was making it worse. Ended up calling the office because I just couldn’t stop worrying - I felt a bit silly, but honestly, they were super chill about it. Sometimes it’s worth checking just to get that weight off your mind, even if it costs a bit. The “what if” feeling is the worst.

I’m right there with you on the “what if” spiral. I had my first ever stitches after a tooth extraction last month, and I swear I spent more time googling “how long do stitches take to dissolve” than actually healing. The instructions said about a week, but by day ten, I was convinced I’d be living with dental floss in my cheek forever. Every time I ate something, I’d panic that I’d ripped one out or made things worse. There was this one stubborn bit that looked like it was hanging on for dear life, and I couldn’t stop poking at it with my tongue, which probably didn’t help anything.

Honestly, I kept thinking, “Is this normal, or am I going to be the first person whose stitches just never dissolve?” I did end up calling the dentist, half expecting them to laugh at me, but they were super nice about it - apparently it’s pretty common for them to take longer, especially if you heal slowly (which, of course, I do). They said as long as there’s no pain, swelling, or weird smell, it’s usually fine. Still, I felt like a bit of a hypochondriac.

Did anyone else get kind of obsessed with checking the stitches every few hours? Or is that just me being a bit neurotic? I wonder if there’s such a thing as “stitch anxiety” - if not, maybe we should coin the term...

Also, has anyone had them actually not dissolve and need to get them removed? The idea of going back in for someone to snip them out sounds… not great.

Did anyone else get kind of obsessed with checking the stitches every few hours? Or is that just me being a bit neurotic?

Not just you at all. I literally had to stop myself from grabbing a mirror every time I passed the bathroom. I was convinced mine were getting looser or tighter depending on what I ate - like, how is that even possible? The urge to poke at them is unreal. I actually did have to go back for one stubborn stitch that just refused to dissolve... and honestly, the removal was way less dramatic than my brain made it out to be. Still, “stitch anxiety” is 100% real in my book.

The urge to poke at them is unreal.

That’s so relatable. I remember being convinced my stitches were “acting up” just because I’d smiled too wide or drank something hot. It’s wild how your mind can amplify every tiny sensation. From a healing perspective, a stitch lingering a bit longer is usually harmless, but the mental side of it is something else... Did anyone else notice if certain foods or activities made you more anxious about them? For me, anything crunchy felt risky, even though it probably wasn’t.

For me, anything crunchy felt risky, even though it probably wasn’t.

Can totally relate to that. I remember after my gum graft, I was low-key terrified every time I had to chew something with even a little bit of texture. Even soft bread felt like a gamble some days. My stitches stuck around longer than I expected, and I kept thinking I’d mess something up just by talking too much. Looking back, most of it was just nerves, but it’s wild how hyper-aware you get. You’re definitely not alone in feeling that way.

My kid went through this last year after some dental work - those stitches seemed like they’d never go away. I was way more anxious than she was, honestly. Every time she ate, I hovered like a hawk. But the dentist said it’s normal for dissolvable stitches to hang around a bit longer sometimes. It’s tough not to worry, but in our case, everything healed up just fine.