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[Closed] How soon is too soon for baby's first dentist trip?
We started around one year too, and yeah, it felt a bit silly at first - my daughter had maybe four teeth total. But our dentist explained they're mostly checking gums, spacing, and early signs of decay or issues with tooth development. Honestly, the first visit was mostly just chatting about brushing habits and diet tips.
Insurance-wise, ours covered it fully, but I know that's not always the case. Might be worth double-checking your policy or even calling them directly to clarify.
I do think starting early helped my daughter feel comfortable later on. By age two or three, she was totally relaxed in the dentist's chair - no tears or squirming at all. So even though those early visits seemed quick and kinda pointless at the time, they definitely paid off for us down the road.
We waited until about 18 months for our first dentist trip - honestly, I was pretty anxious about it. My son barely had any teeth, and I kept thinking, "What exactly are they gonna check?" But like you said, it was mostly a casual chat about habits and stuff. Still, I don't think waiting those extra few months made him any less comfortable later on. He's four now and does fine at the dentist...well, except for the sticker choosing - that takes forever, lol. Guess every kid's different though.
We went around 12 months, mostly because our pediatrician kept nudging us about it. Honestly, I was skeptical too - like, what exactly are they checking when there's barely a tooth poking through? But turns out, it's more about getting parents comfortable and answering questions. Did your dentist talk about fluoride or brushing techniques at that first visit? Ours gave some surprisingly useful tips I hadn't thought of before. Still, I doubt a few months either way makes a huge difference in the long run...
"Honestly, I was skeptical too - like, what exactly are they checking when there's barely a tooth poking through?"
Haha, that's exactly what I thought at first. We ended up going around 14 months, mostly because I kept procrastinating and figured a few baby teeth couldn't possibly need that much attention yet. But I agree, the first visit was way more about us parents than anything else. The dentist spent most of the time talking about brushing techniques and fluoride toothpaste amounts - stuff I hadn't really considered before. Did your dentist also mention the whole "rice grain vs pea-sized" toothpaste thing? Ours stressed it quite a bit, and honestly, it was news to me.
One thing I found surprisingly helpful was when they talked about habits like thumb-sucking or pacifiers and how those might affect tooth alignment later on. I was a thumb-sucker myself as a kid and ended up needing braces, so that caught my attention. They said it's good to gently discourage these habits early on if possible - easier said than done, right?
I do think you're right though: whether it's at 10 months or 16 months probably doesn't matter all that much in terms of dental health long-term. It's more about building good habits early and getting comfortable with the dentist visits themselves. Our little one cried briefly at first but calmed down pretty quickly once the dentist started chatting and making silly faces. Now he's totally fine going back (fingers crossed it stays that way).
Did your dentist say anything about flossing yet? Ours mentioned it briefly, but honestly, flossing baby teeth still feels kind of ambitious to me...
"Did your dentist say anything about flossing yet? Ours mentioned it briefly, but honestly, flossing baby teeth still feels kind of ambitious to me..."
Haha, I felt exactly the same way when our dentist first brought up flossing. Honestly, I thought she was joking at first! But she explained that once the teeth start touching each other, food can get trapped pretty easily - even in those tiny gaps. We gave it a shot a few times, and let's just say it was...an adventure. My granddaughter was not impressed and made her feelings very clear.
But you're right; the early visits are mostly about building comfort and good habits. Our dentist also emphasized thumb-sucking because my grandson was pretty attached to his thumb. She gave us some gentle strategies to redirect him without making it stressful, and surprisingly, they worked pretty well.
Overall, I'd say it's never really "too soon," but there's definitely no need to stress if you haven't gone yet. It's more about setting the stage for future visits and getting everyone comfortable with the routine.
Haha, flossing those tiny teeth is definitely a challenge. Our dentist mentioned it too, and I remember thinking, "Really? Already?" But she showed us how quickly food can get stuck between even the smallest teeth, and it made sense. We tried it a couple times - mostly ended up with giggles and squirming - but hey, practice makes perfect...eventually. Like you said, it's mostly about getting them comfortable with the idea early on.
We started pretty early too, around the first birthday. Honestly, I thought it was a bit soon at first, but our dentist explained it's mostly about getting them used to the environment and routine. The first visit was mostly just counting teeth and chatting about brushing habits - nothing intense. It really helped my little one feel comfortable later on. And yeah, flossing tiny teeth...definitely an adventure, haha. Hang in there, it gets easier!
We waited a bit longer - closer to 18 months - for the first dentist trip, mostly because, honestly, I was trying to stretch our budget a little. But looking back, I can totally see why starting around the first birthday makes sense.
"The first visit was mostly just counting teeth and chatting about brushing habits - nothing intense."
Our experience was similar, just a quick peek and lots of encouragement about good brushing habits. And yeah, flossing tiny teeth is like trying to thread a needle in the dark while riding a roller coaster...fun times. 😂 But seriously, I found that making it into a silly game or singing goofy songs helped ease my toddler into it. It definitely got easier as we went along.
I do think those early visits are helpful for getting kids comfortable at the dentist. Even though we started later, my daughter still adjusted pretty quickly after a few visits. Guess every kid's different, but starting early probably doesn't hurt if you can swing it.
We took our little guy around 14 months, mostly because my mom kept nagging me about it (thanks, grandma guilt). Honestly, I was expecting some big ordeal, but it was literally just a quick peek and a sticker at the end. He was more interested in the fish tank in the waiting room than anything else.
And yeah, flossing tiny teeth is a special kind of torture. I tried the singing thing too - ended up inventing some ridiculous song about "flossy floss monsters" that he still demands every night. Whatever works, right?
I do wonder though...does anyone else's dentist push fluoride treatments super early? Ours mentioned it at the first visit, and I wasn't sure if that was standard or just their office being extra cautious. Curious what others have experienced with that.
It's great you had a smooth first visit! Just wanted to gently mention that fluoride treatments for little ones aren't necessarily about being overly cautious - it's pretty common practice these days. Early fluoride can really help strengthen enamel and prevent cavities down the road, especially if your area doesn't have fluoridated water. Of course, every dentist's approach is slightly different, but it's usually just about giving those tiny teeth the best start possible. Sounds like you're already doing awesome though...flossy floss monsters and all!
We started fluoride treatments pretty early too...our dentist recommended it around 12 months since our tap water isn't fluoridated. Honestly, I was skeptical at first but now I'm glad we did. Curious though, anyone notice their little ones disliking the taste at first? Mine definitely did...
We started fluoride treatments around the same age, and yeah, mine wasn't thrilled about the taste either at first. She'd scrunch up her face like I'd just betrayed her trust, haha. But after a few visits, she got used to it. From what I've read, it's pretty common for little ones to dislike new flavors initially - especially something as distinct as fluoride gel - but they usually adapt quickly. Glad you stuck with it!
I remember when my grandkids first started fluoride treatments, they acted like we were torturing them with some awful medicine. But honestly, it's worth the initial fuss - fluoride really does wonders for preventing cavities early on. One thing I've wondered though, is whether dentists nowadays recommend fluoride varnish over gels for babies and toddlers? Seems like the varnish might be easier to tolerate taste-wise... Curious if anyone's dentist has mentioned this.
My dentist actually mentioned this exact thing last time we went in. She said they're leaning more toward varnish these days because it's quicker to apply and kids don't mind it as much taste-wise. Plus, she pointed out that varnish tends to stick around longer on the teeth, so you might not need treatments quite as often - which is a nice bonus if you're watching your budget. Definitely seems like a win-win for both parents and kiddos...
Yeah, my dentist mentioned something similar last time I went in too. She said varnish tends to be easier on younger kids since there's less fuss and gagging involved - definitely a plus for those first few visits. Honestly, anything that makes the dentist less intimidating for little ones is great in my book. Sounds like your dentist is really keeping up with the latest practices...good to know you're in good hands!
That's a great point about the varnish - I've noticed kids tend to handle it way better too. Usually, we recommend scheduling that first dentist visit around the time the first tooth pops up or by their first birthday. Did your dentist mention anything about timing for that first appointment?
"Usually, we recommend scheduling that first dentist visit around the time the first tooth pops up or by their first birthday."
That's pretty much what I've seen recommended as well, though I have noticed some parents prefer waiting a bit longer. From my experience, earlier visits tend to make kids more comfortable with dental check-ups down the road. My niece had her first appointment at about 8 months when her first tooth appeared, and now she's surprisingly calm during visits... maybe there's something to starting early after all. Did your dentist give you any specific reasoning behind their timing suggestion?
I get the logic behind starting early, but honestly, I think sometimes parents stress themselves out unnecessarily. My youngest didn't see a dentist until he was almost two - mostly because life got hectic and we just forgot (oops). But guess what? He's totally chill about dentist visits now. I think a lot depends on the kid's personality and how relaxed the parents are about it. Early visits might help, sure, but they're not the only factor...
Did your dentist seem concerned at all that you waited until two? I'm a bit anxious about this because our pediatrician recommended going by one, and now I'm wondering if waiting longer might cause issues later. My daughter is 10 months and barely has any teeth yet...maybe it's too soon to stress about it? I'm probably overthinking, but I'd rather be safe than sorry.
We waited until my son was almost two as well, and honestly, our dentist didn't seem worried at all. She just mentioned that the "by one" recommendation is mostly about getting kids comfortable with dental visits early on, rather than because there's usually a serious issue at that age. My son barely had teeth at 10 months too - he was a late bloomer in that department, haha. I totally get your anxiety though; I was the same way, worrying if I'd missed some crucial window or something. But really, as long as you're brushing gently once teeth start coming in and keeping an eye out for anything unusual, you're probably fine. Every kid is different, and it sounds like you're already doing great by thinking ahead. Trust your gut, but try not to stress too much... easier said than done, I know!